Jilted bride who went ahead with wedding gets engaged

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Kayley Stead A blonde-haired woman wearing a white wedding dress and holding a bouquet of white, pink and blue flowers.Kayley Stead

Neil Jones Photography A woman in a white wedding dress laughing at the camera. She is holding a sparkler and there are guests behind her in dresses also holding sparklers Neil Jones Photography


Rather than cancel the £12,000 wedding day, Kayley decided to continue after her former partner failed to turn up

Kayley enjoyed her day in her wedding dress, making speeches and dancing - despite there being no husband in sight

When Kayley Stead was left alone at the altar on her big day, she did what few would think to do - let the wedding continue.

Kayley, now 30, became a social media sensation off the back of her decision in 2022, with many of her guests also agreeing to "just go with this madness".

Footage from the day shows her enjoying her day in her wedding dress, making speeches and dancing - despite there being no husband in sight.

But four years on, Kayley has found love again and is engaged to the man she now lives with in Swansea.

"I'm going to invest in AirTags because he needs them all over him, obviously, so I need to know where he is at all times," she joked.

Recalling the wedding, Kayley told BBC Radio Wales Breakfast: "We'd just come out of covid, I hadn't seen friends and family for such a long time.

"I had people coming from Ireland and Scotland. They had spent money, I spent just shy of £12,000 of my own money on this wedding."

Kayley Stead Kayley showing off her engagement ring with her hand up to the camera. She wears a black dress with white polka dots and Richard has his arm over her shoulder in pink shirtKayley Stead

Kayley and Richard rekindled their friendship after her former fiancé failed to turn up on their wedding day

Kayley said another reason she carried on was because she was looking forward to a nacho bar.

She said: "I had a cheese fountain, salsa, guacamole, jalapenos, the chips. I had the whole works. I love it."

She added: "I wish I could go back and do it again, but as me now. I would enjoy it 10 times more.

"It's a day nobody gets to be filled with so much love and gratitude."

Her non-wedding day video was viewed by more than 800,000 people online.

After the wedding, Kayley was supposed to go to Turkey on her honeymoon, and stay in a flat owned by a relative of her former fiancé.

Instead, she flew to New York with her friend and had her "own dream honeymoon".

"I did things by myself, like have breakfast in a window eating a croissant. It was such a poignant moment. It was like a movie," she said.

Kayley Stead Kayley Stead and Richard. They are in a restaurant together smiling side by side. She wears a green top and hoop earrings, with her hair tied back. He wears a beige polo shirt and has short dark hair. Kayley Stead

Richard and Kayley went to university together

Kayley first met her now fiancé Richard Perrott, 31, when they were on the same course in university 10 years ago.

She said he asked her out in their first year but she said no. Then, in third year, she asked him out and he said no.

Richard, from Midsomer Norton in Somerset, got in touch to offer support after he heard about her wedding day.

They rekindled their friendship and began their relationship two years ago.

He popped the question during a return visit to their old campus at University of Wales Trinity St David in Carmarthen, where it all started.

"It was just a complete shock," she said.

"We'd spoken about marriage... but I think to put me off the scent, he was always kind of going, 'oh, I don't know whether I do or not'.

"So it was a long game he played."

Next wedding 'a big party'

Kayley has since heard from other people recounting their own experiences of weddings or other events being cancelled.

"People, when they go through break-ups, just want to kind of go into their own bubble which they have their right to do," she said.

"But reclaiming my strength and love in that moment has shaped me so much more.

"It's made me a more confident person. It's made me stand up for myself."

Kayley and her fiancé are planning to marry in April 2028, at a wedding she plans to be "a big party".

She has also made her mind up on the biggest wedding decision she has to make.

"There will be another nacho bar. Grander, bigger. That's going to be my centre-piece," she said.

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